Cake, men, and a Virtual B slap.

I love cake. Especially cupcakes.  There's just something about having your own mini cake that is yours to enjoy alone.  They are super cute, come in different sizes, flavors, and have the cute little wrappers that gives it a special touch.  Cake is sinful, sometimes you want more than one but deep down you know that is bad for you.  I think it's also safe to say that each cake lover has that one kind that is their weakness.  The "cant get enough of it" kind of thing. Like me and red velvet cake; I have a love/hate relationship with it.


Kind of like men. haha


I love men.  Like cupcakes, they come in different sizes, types [flavors] and the ones that dress really nice just puts the icing on top of a beautiful man. My weakness--bad boys. smh.  It's unfortunate, really. 


Cake...men....both delicious, some are really pretty to look at, and they both make me drool on occasion.


Want the comparison to continue followed by a totally intended virtual B slap that initiated the cake post? ok, follow me!


Here's the thing about cake: too much of it is not good for you.  And, let's be honest, on occasion we have moments where we think "Meh, cake is cake." 

Baked by Melissa Cupcakes.  Had them in NYC. Mmm... mouth.drooling.

Still, the comparison to men works.  But most of the time, you should be picky!  Don't let anyone tell you different.  It's your cupcake so you should get one that you will really enjoy.


OK.. on to the point.  Aren't these little gems ^^ just pretty to look at?  I mean, all of them.  When we got these cupcakes in NYC last fall I couldn't get over how cute they were.  At that moment I understood exactly what it meant to really want to "Have your cake and eat it too."  I literally wanted to keep some of them because they were so cute but my mouth was drooling to eat them knowing how delicious they really were.


I've been thinking about this idea lot this week with some crap that's been going on lately.  In life there are some people who really want to "have their cake and eat it too" especially when it comes to their relationships.  So what does that mean?  I mean, if you dangle cake in front of my face you better be dang sure that I'm going to want to eat it.  Doesn't mean that I will actually eat it but a part of me usually wants too. [ But HELLO--It's called control. ] But I know that if I eat my cake that I can't HAVE it as well.  I mean, my belly has it for a bit and some of it might stick to my thigh's and rear end but I don't really still have possession of it.  I've eaten it and that's it.


This phrase is referring to just that--people who want the best of both worlds. To have it and to eat it.  For example, this would be people who want all the benefits of being in a relationship so they hold on to one when they get it but at the same time wants to live the "single life" or still date around but doesn't really let the other person know where they really stand.  


Earth to you people--It doesn't freaking work that way.  Don't you know you can't have the best of both world's when it comes to relationships while still remaining honest to yourself and the other person in the relationship?
Gah.  grow up.


All I have to say is whatever you are doing, just be open and honest about it.  Don't lie to people.  It's hurtful and it's rude.  Tell the truth! On the other side, If you are just feeling a little crazy and you want to go try a lot of cakes this summer then just do it. nbd.  Cake is good...Just be careful:)


ummm Cupcake run anyone?! really.  that red velvet is calling my name.
fml.